In a perfect world this does exist. By scream I do mean yelling. I read the book "Scream-Free Parenting" because I was looking for some constructive way to effectively get my point across to a 4-yr old that doesn't want to listen to anything I have to say. I usually end up yelling because I get frustrated after repeatedly stating my request in a nice pleasant manner doesn't work.
The book points out that yes indeed this is my issue and I need to find a better, more appropriate technique. Well duh!! Perhaps I should have chosen a different book. LOL!
But seriously, the book does provide some alternatives and some parenting strategies for success. However they are not really helpful for parenting toddlers or preschoolers. :(
Overall the book is a good read but geared toward parenting of slightly older children.
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Let me know if you come up with anything useful tips. I'm in the same boat. After asking nicely 4 or 5 or 6 times, I too resort to just raising my voice. I wish I didn't. I see the kids yelling at each other a lot more and JR even says he does it because he sees me do it. :(
ReplyDeleteYes I definitely understand that. I notice certain behavior changes in Jay too when I am frustrated and yell more often. I found a flier at our library for a workshop for parents with children ages 2-10 that will be in my area in Nov discussing alternatives to yelling and punishment etc. I think i will go and check it out. Maybe some useful tips. =)
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